Tom Linnemann considered himself a Twitter loyalist until fairly recently.
âIt was the greatest invention in the world,â he says of the platform, reminiscing on its golden years, which he pinpoints from 2012 to about 2016. âYou cast a wide net and found people as crazy as you were.â His experience finally soured when Elon Musk bought the company in 2022, later rebranding it Xââthere was this inundation of bullshitââand Linnemann, a toy executive who splits his time between Toronto and Los Angeles, started to rely on group chats even more.
He does his best to honor the code of conduct set by each group, which includes âno hot mics,â meaning, what is said in the group chat stays in the group chat. Itâs meant to facilitate the sharing of hot takes among his WhatsApp group, which consists mainly of media professionalsâjournalists, a former editor in chief, a filmmaker, but also âa guy who works at a weed shop.â
âThe mafia calls it omertà . We call it Hot Mic,â he says.
While the popularity of group chats cannot be denied, discourse about them has intensified in the weeks following SignalGateâthe scandal concerning the leak of military intelligence by top Trump advisers to a journalist on the Signal app. Group chats are used for everything from daily communication to niche interests (vacation planning, a summer basketball league), and at their most useful they animate the promise and possibility of social connection. But with the increased awareness about surveillance and politics feeling more divided than ever under President Donald Trump, some now view group chats as more nefarious and less like a safe space. The issue highlights a dilemma about relationships more broadly: that perhaps we are less trusting of each other than weâd like to let on.
When a member of Linnemannâs chat violated the âno hot micsâ rule not long ago, sharing information about a baseball card negotiation with an outsider, they âgot turfed,â he says.
âEntering a group chat is like leaving your front door unlocked and letting strangers wander in,â says L.M. Chilton, author of Everyone in the Group Chat Dies, a novel about a serial killer who uses group chats to track down his victims. âHow can you know who they really are or what they really want?â
Chilton says that while the premise of his novel is extreme, âthere are risks involved in group chats.â
He is currently on a neighborhood chat with 100 people. âAnyone with the link can join it. What if someone on there is a burglar, and I mention Iâm off on holiday next week?â
Security concerns around group chats come amid wider fears about how peopleâs data and social media can be used against them. While Signal is generally thought to be a more secure option, as Trumpâs senior advisers have shown us, thereâs always room for human errorâor hidden resentments. A reader recently told The Cut that their group chat, filled with women who are âvarious shades of liberal, is âruiningâ their life because of disagreements over current events. âIf this isnât a safe space to vent, then do I need to find a different, more like-mindedâor at least less easily offendedâgroup of friends?â the person asked.